Lucifer, the original series on Netflix just released the 6th season this year. So many characters deserve a spotlight for their performance. In this case, the spotlight will be gleaming on Dr. Linda Martin, the therapist. Her first appearance was in the first episode of season 1 and she became the important role for Lucifer as his therapist. She is incredibly smart, generous, and loves to help the other characters get through their problems. During his session, Lucifer gets so much advice from the doctor about all his problems, including his relationship with the detective. So, here are the most essential relationship advices from Dr.Linda.
“That’s what being in a relationship is, sharing without losing yourself in the process”
Will you agree to her statement? Being in a relationship can feel pretty great, you are going bananas for someone at first and feel the world belongs to you two only. You two love sharing emotions and things. But, the most important thing is not losing yourself in the process. So, prioritize yourself in the process.
“Sometimes when we care about people, we have to go through pain and loss. But, that’s the price of joy”
If you are committed to loving someone, sometimes you need to ‘sacrifice’. Sacrificing sounds terrible if you describe it as giving away your life to someone. There will always be a price you have to pay so that you can redeem joy. In Lucifer’s case, he has to show a deep level of caring to the detective through pain and loss. But, in the end, the detective noticed his affection and paid him back.
“Never loving anyone is far worse than loss”
Is it really bad to be scared of losing someone? No, it’s normal. Because it means that you value someone more. But, don’t be afraid to love someone else simply because you’re terrified of being abandoned. Love gives you happiness.