Avoiding Negative People

Negativity is characterized by a disposition to be pessimistic, unpleasant, and skeptical. It’s a gloomy mindset that constantly assumes the worst. Negative consequences are undesirable results, such as losing a game, contracting a sickness, being injured, or having something stolen.

Every day, I deal with genuine human suffering. Others who only whine to be bad can go. Perhaps you share my sentiments.

Here are some strategies for dealing with negative individuals in your life.

• Avoid using social media

  I realize it’s so much simpler said than done. It’s practically hard for me to do because I’m contractually obligated to post every day. However, some days I simply post and shut off. I’ve gotten into disputes with strangers and also been insulted by individuals I’ve complimented. People no longer call their friends or adversaries when drunk or high; instead, they write on Facebook.

• Avoiding irritated acquaintances

  People you don’t truly know can become furious with you: neighbors, past schoolmates, and even acquaintances of former pals can get in your face or distance themselves from you. If you try the former, I insist on the latter. To be honest, whenever someone shows me their rage, I flip the switch and am done with them. You should be as well.

• When a family member becomes unhappy and transfers their feelings onto you, request a meeting.

  Yes, you could transfer them or have them snatched by aliens, but chatting is far more convenient. People aren’t usually unhappy for the reasons they believe they are. Therefore, a little compassion may help your member of the family focus on the true issue. It would also make things simpler for both of you if the children knew they could count on your assistance and understanding.

• Set boundaries as necessary

  Do you, for example, know someone who is always complaining? If this is the case, you should cherish the connection but be mindful that being inundated with someone else’s unpleasant concerns can be emotionally draining. Set some ground rules. You may say, “I need to go now,” or advise, “You might want to see a therapist.” If you do this regularly and the buddy respects you, they will cease bothering you.

• Kindness is more important than relationships

  Some individuals you like and even respect might have terrible characteristics. You may believe there’s something to give you, but if it is not presented with love, it is meaningless. Individuals who bully themselves through life may achieve some achievements, but they do not create good friends.

• Always be prepared to leave a party

  I like a good social event, but when issues get out of hand, generally due to too much drinking, the mood in the room can quickly become unpleasant. This is an excellent moment to depart. I just ask my wonderful wife if she is prepared to depart, and we say our respects.

• Choose your friends carefully

  Spend time with people that share your underlying principles, and you will experience far less negativity. I’m not much of a recruiter, but when I come across a group of like-minded folks, I stick around for as long as they let me.

• If possible, avoid cynics and misanthropes

  These are folks who dislike everything and are always complaining about it. It might be exhausting to be around them, but avoiding them can be difficult if they are members of the family. You can deal with them by viewing them as somewhat damaged but harmless.

  There will always be a few negative individuals in your environment, unless you live in an ideal country. Using the tactics listed above will assist you in avoiding taking in the negativity. Emotional distress is most likely what causes individuals to behave in this manner, and simply recognizing this can assist you.